Being the youngest child in the family, people tend to stereotype them as the 'spoilt', 'pampered' one and often said as them to be the ones that gets all the best things and are considered as the 'Golden Child' that parents will love them more than the elder children in the family.
Why would i say that it is true is because personally I am the youngest in the family and boy am I lucky. I get unconditional love from my parents. They usually give me the things that I want ever since young or most of the time when i ask for it, they will give it to me. Even if I prefer not to say I want a certain thing, they'd still say 'Nvm lah, you like it then okaylah'. Not only that, I have two awesomest siblings-My sister and late brother which I can tell you, is like the most amazing siblings that a sister could have. Both of them always let me 'go first' or 'take the things you want first'.
As much materialistic as this post sound but what I want to point out here is not about the things that i get. It is more of their character. Their heart, their care and their love. Believe me or not, I have never ever in my life been hit or scolded by my parents. If its like advise 'tegur' me got of course. I actually envy those who had been hit by their parents. lol. One thing I hate about my parents is when they give us the best of the best and they'll just take the 'rest' or 'remainings'. However, they are not bias too.
One is the person that I really look up to - my sister and the other is the one whom I inherited the carefree, playful character - my brother. My sister is the one who taught me alot of things. She's the one who is responsible for moulding me and teaching me all sorts of things. My brother is the one who taught me to take life easy and live it to the fullest because you only life once. I guess i'm really blessed to have these contradicting siblings that made me learned a little form both.
Being the quiet child in the family (i'm serious) I learn to observe my surroundings and i learn to respect my family alot. I never fought with anyone of them before too. To come to the think of it,
I come be so Patient is because of these people.
I come to Love and not expecting love in return is through these people.
I learnt to Care for others sincerely is because of these people.
I come to Understand others is because of these people.
To Help and not expecting a reward is because of these people.
All I am today, my self esteem, is because of these people. All these traits can be a disadvantage to me but, I feel really blessed to be like that.
One thing i feel really amazed about myself is the ability to be patient with even the worst kind of people, or any situations to just be quiet and not fight back or question and just walk away until I think it is the right time to talk. Sometimes I'd blog about how i feel just to let the part of me out. Yet there are times where all the feelings are packed in my chest that I can't even breathe. And yeah, I prefer to keep problems to myself cause I don't like making my problem as a part of other people's problem too. So next time if you ask me a few times or so what's wrong and I answer Nothing. Stop bugging me and Stop asking. I will tell when I feel like it.
I wonder too whether one day I would just let everything out and burst into tears. That's the thing that i admire the most about myself - Patience (flips hair) ;p I don't know how I do it actually. I don't mind if the things I do, people don't return it. As long as they're happy, I'm happy. Just don't take advantage of me thats all I ask of. =)
I experienced the Love from my Family, I have got enough Love from my Family and am still getting Love from them. It's my turn to share the love that I have with those that I hold close to me. =)
Just Doing It With Love
-June-
