The Green Eyed Monster

"Look at them...so intimate...look at the way that guy is staring at her..why don't i get treated like that? Why her and not me? Well...can't argue with that..she IS a bombshell...look at her mysterious eyes..no wonder he can't keep his eyes of her...how i wish i was her... *sigh*"
Sounds familiar to some of you? ;)

All of us has a green eyed monster in us. it is called "Jealousy". Jealousy exist in all relationships-families, friends, couples, co-workers, even with a stranger. Even i get jealous at times. Duh...We are all human and its normal for one to feel in that way however jealousy is not a healthy emotion as it brings out the "Dr Jekyll" in us if the jealousy is a strong one.

Usually girls are the ones who get jealous easily compared to guys. girls like to compare between each other mainly because of beauty, their assets, the boyfriend, the character of another and the things they have and then they'll start gossiping and bitch talk about each other..hahaha...I've heard before that if someone who doesn't even know you personally and already hates you like hell and always talks shit about you..it means you have already succeeded. succeeded in what you ask? succeeded for others to hate you cause you are so damn Hawt...summarize it all- Jealous..well i think that it might be true...sometimes.. ;)

Its true..believe me...hehe..

"Jealousy is a rather toxic emotion and can lead to hurt, bitterness and understandings. The success is purely your perception and if your resentful or envious, then it's actually your problem. It is really your friends fault that your not happy? If they're in a relationship and you're not, or have had a fabulous holiday and you're tired of working, do something about it! No one can change your life except for YOU." (Niklovski)

Stop comparing others with ourselves!! We are worth much more than we think we are. Acknowledge the good qualities we have. Be happy for who we are & what we have. Appreciate the things we have - a roof to give us shelter; clothes to keep us warm; food to fill our stomach; body parts to move around; a country with no war; and people around us to love & be loved in return. It is hard to be not jealous but when you feel the jealousy building up in you, stop and think for a moment, Would being jealous even solve any of your problems?

*wink* ;)